This is the second instalment of Pat Grafton's guest post, a very colourful, fascinating story told from memory, of the house that continues to bring our family together.
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I think I shall now try to describe the interesting characters that inhabited the cottage each summer.
First, H.A. He had come over from England as a young man around 1880 and after working in several jobs, started a piano business. After it got established, he sent for his blind brother to tune the pianos. He married Florence Scott and they had three children, Armitage, Frank and Alberta. He did extremely well in business and investments and bought a large house on Dorchester Street in Westmount, where he remained until his death in 1960. His children were in awe of him and rarely did anything against his wishes. For instance, Armitage wished to marry a Catholic girl and was told that if he did he would be disinherited – so ended that romance and Army remained a bachelor all of his life. However, Frank did marry the Catholic girl of his choice and was not disinherited, but H.A. insisted that his three daughters be brought up Protestant. This turned out to be a very happy marriage.
Armitage, H.A.’s eldest son, went into the family business with his father and brother. He volunteered a great deal of his time organizing entertainment for war veterans of World War II through the Canadian Legion, was loved by all, and was called “Uncle Army” by everyone. He was also active in the Kiwanis Club of Montreal until his death at age 92. (Another interesting fact that came out at the time I met the family was that my father and Army had known each other quite well as members of the Kiwanis Club.)
Alberta, H.A.’s only daughter was always “Papa’s pet” as his sons’ said, and this was quite true. She was never allowed to do any housework or cooking and, as a result, never did learn these things in her entire life. She did take a home-making course at Macdonald College, but to no avail. On the other hand, she did receive her Teaching Certificate from Macdonald and taught Grade I for many years. She told me that her teaching years were the happiest in her whole life. In fact, we discovered that she had taught my sister, Doris. She remembered Doris particularly because of the smocked dresses she wore to school that my mother had made for her and said that she would send Doris with a note to another teacher solely for purpose of letting her see the dresses she wore! Alberta did not expect to marry, but Ross Grafton, whom she met at church, popped the question and she accepted. Two years later Geoff (my husband) was born. Fortunately, she was able to have help in the house, and at the time I met the family, Lizzie was her housekeeper.
Ross Grafton, Alberta’s husband, was a part of the scene from the time of his marriage to Alberta in 1927. He commuted regularly on Wednesdays and weekends and after his retirement, spent the summer with us after H.A. died.
His chief interests were his car which was always kept in perfect running order, and his motor boat, the dispro (disappearing propeller). He spent many a happy hour going all over the lake. In the mid-sixties, he bought a new boat which he christened The Diana after his little granddaughter. He was always looking for passengers but as his trips were often too long for us (sometimes two or three hours), when we saw him heading for his boat, we all got very busy. When television came upon the scene he went to the U.S.A. and bought one of the first ones made. I believe he ended up owning seven in all. As you might gather, anything mechanical was of interest to him
He was a very affable and loving man and I was very close to him having lost my father at an early age. He spent most of the summer months with us as Alberta did not like to live there and was very content with the arrangement. I was very happy to have him with me as both Scott & Diana were in cribs at that time and he was good company for me as, of course, Geoff was working and commuting.
Lizzie was a tyrant with a violent temper. I could never understand why Alberta kept her, but she said that she was afraid to lose her as she was totally dependent upon her. I guess it was a case of “better the enemy you know.” She died in her forties of some mysterious disease and Alberta was able to find a very kind and efficient woman to replace her.
Elizabeth, H.A.’s housekeeper, was sent to Canada by her family. She had been in service in a wealthy home in England but was sent home in disgrace for having insulted the housekeeper. I do not know exactly when she came to H.A., but she was always a part of the household for as long as I can remember and stayed with him until she was too old to continue. She did all the cooking in the country and was a delicious cook. When the family went to town for their Friday weekly excursions, Elizabeth always came back with a new hat. She was a short woman and very stout and had very little hair on her head and these new hats perched on her head were visions to behold! However, she was very good-natured and was happy as long as she was complimented frequently on her cooking.
And so it was with this interesting group that my husband Geoff spent all his summers.






